If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.
You can’t expect good results if you try making a building without a blueprint.
You have to know what you want.
for how can one ask for what he wants, if he does not KNOW what he wants?
And if one does not know what he wants, how is he to even plan in order to get it?
If life told you that it would grant you what you want, just ask, what would you ask?
How is life supposed to answer your question, when you don’t know what to ask it?
And if a question is asked, if has to be specific enougth as to warrent a search for THAT specific thing, and not a closely related unacceptable thing.
If you are specific with life, life will be specific to you.